Venus Conjunct Neptune
You are a true romantic armed with an idealism and imagination to fan passion’s fire. You have a mental picture of the perfect mate, which may cause you trouble if you actually believe anyone can live up to your fantasy lover. Those who attract you usually have an aura of enigma about them.

Venus Sextile or Trine Pluto
The intensity of your passion either draws people to you or makes them flee! You are capable of such deep emotion some really do find it disconcerting. You are very charming and those of your sexual preference find you very attractive. You can be a bit of a manipulator.